One of the most popular parenting workshops I offer is the one on discipline. The word Discipline is tricky, some see it as negative and associate it with punishment, “disciplinary action” others see it as I do, a gift, as in “he has self- discipline”. I believe discipline is a gift we give our children. There are 3 levels of obedience; 1. Before age 3 children only have the ability to obey if what is asked happens to correspond with one of his/her vital urges. Therefor